Despite our travels in 2013 and 2014, we hadn’t had an adults-only vacation for about 2 years. Luckily Chuck’s mom Carla came to the rescue, and flew down to babysit the kids while we went to Sonoma and Napa for 4 nights.
Our first night was spent with Chuck’s friend Bonny in Santa Rosa. In the morning we had a great breakfast then got a tour of Bonny’s property including her 2.5 acres of grapes. Then it was off for some wine tasting!
We dropped our car off at Coppola then drove to Stonestreet Winery which is owned by Jackson Family Wineries. Bonny has been here multiple times and knows one of the executives so we got VIP (free!) tastings. We sat outside looking at a gorgeous view as we were treated to both the white and red wines. I’m not usually a big white wine drinker but the one Chardonnay was the best Chardonnay I’ve ever had (I think it was the 2012 Cougar Ridge Chardonnay).
Then it was on to tasting the reds. These were some of the best red wines I’ve ever had. I think it was the 2012 Cougar Ridge Cabernet Sauvignon that was amazing. Smooth, balanced, with many subtle flavors all blending together in perfect harmony. They also brought out a few of the high end “back room” wines. Once again, the red wine, 2010 Christopher’s Cabernet Sauvignon, was beyond words and Chuck and I “fought” over each sip.
The two of us with Bonny at Stonestreet. Wonderful place to relax and enjoy wine!
After our time at Stonestreet, we made a quick stop for lunch and then drove back to Coppola. The best thing about being here was the grounds and all the movie memorabilia. We even got to see his Oscars which was pretty cool. Once again Bonny hooked us up with a free tasting although I didn’t really enjoy any of the wines.
View from CoppolaOscars!
Bonny had to leave us at this point but suggested DaVero which is a small farm and winery. Not only did they have pretty good wine, but they had delicious jam and olive oil. They also had the cutest little piglets we got to see.
We were pretty full of wine at this point (well I was, Chuck was driving), so we headed to Healdsburg for dinner. After a fine dinner at Healdsburg Bar & Grill, we headed to our hotel, the Hampton Inn Windsor, checked in and went to bed pretty early.
On Friday, it was off to Napa! First we drove to Calistoga and had some BBQ before another free tasting (thanks again Bonny!) at Freemark Abbey. The wines were pretty good but since we’d been spoiled at Stonestreet, they didn’t seem like anything to write home about.
Then we drove to Yountville to pick up pastries and bread at Bouchon Bakery. The macarons were a close second to the ones at Ladurée in Paris. So good!
Next up was Cakebread. I had the highest hopes for this winery and paid extra for the special red wine tasting. The wines sounded so good so I figured this was the place to blow the budget. Turns out we were the only ones that signed up for this particular time so we had our own private tasting! Score!
The bad part was that we didn’t like the wines that much. They were good but young (so the guy told us but now I know what a young wine tastes like). They were pleasant but lacked depth and character. They’d probably be delicious aged for a few years but I wasn’t going to buy any at their prices and risk it.
Last on the agenda was a tasting at Domaine Carneros. I picked this place because of the photos – it looked incredible. They also mostly serve sparkling wines, and even though I’m not much a fan of sparkling wine, I thought it would be nice to try something different and mix things up. Actually I should say that I didn’t used to be a fan of sparkling wine until my visit here. They completely changed my mind.
Panorama of the view at Domaine Carneros
Our tasting consisted of 4 sparkling wines – 2 bruts, 1 rose and 1 demi-sec – although we were treated to an extra one. They were delicious. Interesting, balanced, well rounded and with bubbles. Our favorite was the Blanc de Noir which is made from Pinot Noir grapes. This stuff was so good that we enjoyed another glass AND bought our first bottle of wine to take home. The grounds are beautiful and it was such a wonderful place to sit and enjoy a glass of bubbly while watching the world go by.
4 glasses of happy at Domaine Carneros
After our bubbly, it was off to dinner at Ristorante Allegria in downtown Napa. Chuck and I had eaten here once before on our first trip to Napa and it was an amazing meal – one of those meals of a lifetime. We had no delusions that it would be as remarkable the 2nd time but still knew we’d have a very good meal. Boy were we both wrong. We both ordered the same thing as last time, Wild Mushroom Ravioli for me and Gnocchi al Pesto for Chuck, and they were every bit as good as our first trip. I think I spent the entire meal with my eyes closed savoring every single bite and making mmmmm noises. It was that good.
On Saturday, it was Sonoma day. We first headed to Armstrong Redwoods State Natural Reserve to see some redwoods. There was a redwood tree there that was 310′ tall and another was 1400 years old! Incredible. It was such a treat to visit this park and surround ourselves in old redwood trees. Quite amazing.
Colonel Armstrong – 308′ tall and 1400 years oldSee the tiny speck that is Chuck?
Next we headed to downtown Sonoma to check it out. Mara had just been studying the missions of California and her assigned mission was Mission San Francisco Solano which happened to be in Sonoma, CA. So Chuck and I stopped by to take a tour and some pictures to share with Mara.
Mission San Francisco Solano in Sonoma, CA
Then it was time for some more wine! First stop was Imagery which we enjoyed. They had a White Burgundy that I’m still thinking about and now I wish I’d bought a bottle. I did enjoy a nice glass of it while basking in the sun. They also had a couple of other wines I’ve never had before which is always fun.
We had time to squeeze in one more winery, so we hightailed it to Benziger. I really enjoyed their wines as well, especially their Pinot Noir and their Gewürztraminer. In fact, I enjoyed them so much that I had a glass of Pinot Noir while at the vineyard and brought a bottle of the 2013 Gewürztraminer home.
Benziger
Chuck found us a great, little Indian restaurant so we loaded up on Indian food for dinner and headed back to our hotel.
The next morning, it was time to head to airport and head home. After 4 nights away it was definitely good to be back home and with our kids again. But I’m already dreaming of my return to wine country some day.
Interview with Beckett at the end of our year of traveling (age 7)
Paragliding in Ölüdeniz, Turkey
Q: Have you enjoyed traveling this past year? Beckett: Yes. I’ve enjoyed traveling because you can go a lot of fun places like Turkey and Thailand.
Q: What do you like most about traveling? Beckett: That I get to do fun activities like paragliding and ziplining and stuff. And elephant camp.
Riding an elephant in Chiang Mai, ThailandZiplining in Thailand
Q: What did you like least about traveling? Beckett: I have to pack and unpack my bag. And as soon as I find somewhere fun, I have to leave.
Q: What toys/games are you happy you brought with you? Beckett: Stuffies! Stuffies is like everything I brought.
Q: What were your favorite places? Why? Beckett: Thailand because we went to an elephant camp and took care of elephants for a day and cleaned it, checked the poo, ate lunch then bathed it. And I also went ziplining through the trees in a jungle. We saw gibbons through the trees.
Turkey because I went paragliding and they have delicious pancakes – yum yum. The paragliding was so fun – you were 6000’ up – but the drive was really scary.
Santorini because we went ATV-ing. And Morocco because we went ATV-ing out in the desert and because of the cobra show.
Watching a cobra in the Medina in Marrakech, MoroccoDriving an ATV in Morocco
Q: What were your least favorite places? Why? Beckett: Istanbul. There was just nothing really good to see there. And Spain, there was just nothing really good to do around.
Q: What were your favorite experiences? Beckett: Ziplining. Taking care of elephants for a day. Paragliding! ATV-ing. Going up the Eiffel Tower. Walking on the Great Wall of China and taking the toboggan down. Ice cream show in Turkey. Yee Peng. Tigers. Turkish Bath.
Ice cream show in TurkeyUp the Eiffel Tower late at nightYee Peng in Chiang Mai, ThailandBeck and Mara running on the Great Wall of ChinaCuddling with tigers in Thailand
Q: What were your least favorite experiences? Beckett: My least favorite experience was trying new foods. The ferry from Rhodes to Turkey – I hate that. I did not like Pamukkale. The scary drive up the mountain to paraglide. Hagia Sophia, the Blue Mosque and Topkapi Palace in Istanbul were boring.
Q: Did you enjoy being homeschooled? Beckett: Uhhhhh… don’t know. It was ok.
Q: What was your favorite homeschool subject? Beckett: Science
Q: What was your least favorite homeschool subject? Beckett: Writing
Q: What have you learned from your travels so far? Beckett: That traveling can be fun but also not fun. How bad the ferry from Rhodes to Turkey was. How boring plane rides are. How fun ATVs are. How fun paragliding and taking care of an elephant is. How fun ziplining is.
Q: What were some of your favorite foods? Beckett: Turkish pancakes. Crepes. Mac n’ cheese from Hotel Letoon in Fethiye, Turkey. Baguettes. Food-go-round. MK in Thailand.
Eating Gözleme (Turkish pancakes) in Calis Beach, TurkeyFood-Go-Round in Thailand
Q: What do you miss the most about the USA? Beckett: Having a house and not having to pack your bags every once in a while. And unpack them. Finding friends and not having to leave them.
Q: What will you miss the most about traveling? Beckett: Going fun places and doing once in a lifetime experiences.
Q: Where do you want to travel next? Beckett: Go on African safari.
Me-O Veterinary Clinic in Kidzania in BangkokMaking curry paste at Sammy’s Cooking School in Chiang Mai, ThailandWashing MaeBonChon in the river at Patara Elephant Camp in ThailandFeeding a baby tiger at the Night Safari in Chiang Mai, ThailandFC Barcelona futbol game at Camp Nou in Barcelona, SpainBeckett and his magic genie lamp in Marrakech, MoroccoLoi Krathong festival in Chiang Mai, ThailandCrossing the Mekong River in a longtail boat from Thailand to LaosLe Meridian Chiang RaiGoing Viking at the Viking Ship Museum in Oslo, NorwayTiny alley in Santorini, GreeceSantorini, GreeceTuk Tuk Race!Fresh squeezed OJ from stall #63 in Marrakech, MoroccoFeeding pigeons at Tha Pae Gate in Chiang Mai, ThailandZorb balls in ThailandTree “snow” in ParisRiding a donkey in Marrakech, MoroccoFish Spa in Chiang Mai, Thailand
Interview with Mara at the end of our year of traveling (age 9)
MaeKwan at Patara Elephant Camp in Thailand
Q: Have you enjoyed traveling this past year? Mara: Well… it’s fun at times. But sometimes I miss just having a house. But it’s great – I love traveling the world and it’s amazing!
Q: What do you like most about traveling? Mara: Going new places and experiencing new cultures. And I love to try the different foods. And the different treats are always fun.
Q: What did you like least about traveling? Mara: I don’t get to have much stuff and it’s kind of hard to make friends when you know you’re going to be leaving soon. Sometimes I just miss having friends and having a real house and being able to decorate it.
Q: What toys/games are you happy you brought with you? Mara: Well, I’m happy I brought my stuffed animals. Or some of my stuffed animals. And I’m happy I brought my Barbies. That’s pretty much all I brought.
Me with my Stuffies and Barbies
Q: What were your favorite places? Why? Mara: I loved Thailand because there were so many adventures and there are lots of crazy markets. I loved Paris because I wanted to go there all my life and I SO LOVED going up the Eiffel Tower. And I loved Hong Kong because there was a restaurant we called “Noodle Girl” and it was soooo yum! Santorini was AM-AZ-ING!
Me in front of the Eiffel Tower for the first time!Noodle Girl in Hong KongSantorini
Q: What were your least favorite places? Why? Mara: Well, that’s kind of hard but Spain was the worst place we went. But it was still pretty darn good. And in Istanbul, all the restaurants served Turkish food which got boring. Plus the Grand Bazaar was just ok. There are so many stray cats and dogs which got scary.
Q: What were your favorite experiences? Mara: I loved the elephant camp in Thailand. It was UNBELIEVABLY cool! And I also loved the crazy markets. I liked the Noodle Girl restaurant in Hong Kong – it makes me so hungry for grilled steak. Yee Peng was amazing! Great Wall of China! Marrakech ATVs were awesome! Seeing my family paraglide was neat. The Eiffel Tower in Paris, France was amazing! It was so cool. And there were lights on it that blinked and made it looked like it sparkled.
Yee Peng in ThailandAll smiles while warming up after the Forbidden CityGreat Wall of ChinaATVs in Marrakech, Morocco
Q: What were your least favorite experiences? Mara: Pamukkale (in Turkey) was ok. And Tiger Kingdom was ok. I really disliked the Louvre, Notre Dame, and La Sagrada Familia. The Alcazar (in Seville, Spain) was bor-ing. The Parthenon was boring. I disliked the ferry from Rhodes to Turkey because the sea was so rocky and wavy and over half the people threw up. Climbing up the Kotor wall was just so long and boring.
Q: Did you enjoy being homeschooled? Mara: Yes because less school hours. And I don’t have to wake up early, early, early. I have the nicest teacher in the world. I also liked the way she taught multiplication and division.
Q: What was your favorite homeschool subject? Mara: I don’t have one. I do like multiplication.
Q: What was your least favorite homeschool subject? Mara: My least favorite was spelling.
Homeschooling in SpainLearning about Ancient Greece and hosting our own Olympics
Q: What have you learned from your travels so far? Mara: A lot about how boring planes are. And how rocky and wavy ferries can be. And how annoying it is to wake up early. I also learned a lot about geography. I also learned how to negotiate. And how fun tuk tuks are. And I learned how annoying it is to have everything you own fit into a suitcase. And that elephants are fun and amazing creatures.
Q: What were some of your favorite foods? Mara: Pizza in Fethiye, Turkey at Nil Bar. Steak at “Noodle Girl” in the Hong Kong airport. And Nic’s in Chiang Mai, Thailand had great meatballs and pizza. The baguettes we had in Spain were AMAZING! Mint tea in Marrakech. Mmm mmm. The crepes and macarons in Paris – yum! The gyros in Santorini and the olives in Athens were good. I also liked sushi and coconut milk straight from the coconut in Thailand.
I did NOT like the orange hot dog under the Eiffel Tower. Blahhhh.
Mint tea in Marrakech, MoroccoBaguettes and croissants in ParisHappy cones in Almuñécar, Spain
Q: What do you miss the most about the USA? Mara: I miss being able to talk to kids in English. And I miss English TV. I miss going to swim team. Girl Scouts! Toy stores!
Q: What will you miss the most about traveling? Mara: I’m going to miss the food and the cultures and going new places.
Q: Where do you want to travel next? Mara: Egypt to see the Pyramids. And Russia – I like snow.
Fish Spa in Chiang Mai, ThailandMail girl at Kidzania in BangkokCooking Thai food at Sammy’s Cooking School in Chiang Mai, ThailandDrinking tea at a Khantoke dinnerFeeding sun conures in ThailandLoi Krathong festival in Chiang Mai, ThailandLongtail boat trip on the Mekong from Thailand to LaosTree “snow” in Paris
Riding a bull at a carnival in La Herradura, Spain
We can now add paragliding to the list of activities we didn’t know we wanted to do until presented with the opportunity. Turns out that where we’re staying in Turkey (Fethiye/Calis Beach) is about a half hour away from Ölüdeniz, which is famous for both its turquoise blue waters and fantastic paragliding.
We weren’t 100% sure if we’d do it, but once we got to Ölüdeniz and saw everyone coming down, we knew we had to do it. Since we couldn’t leave the kids on their own, only Kirsten went on the first day.
She had a great time, which made me want to go, and then Beckett REALLY started begging us to go. He’s been relentless for the past two weeks, and we finally gave in and said yes. So a couple days ago, we all went over there again so Beckett and I could get our turn.
All the companies have offices down by the beach and you just show up and sign up with whomever you want. Most of them have flights 4 or 5 times a day. Then all the people doing it will hop into a van with their pilots and take a 30 minute drive up Babadağ mountain, the top of which is about 6,500 feet.
They have 3 launch areas at the top, and the winds dictate which one you use. It’s basically a big slope filled with paver stones. You’re not actually jumping off a cliff, but instead just catch air and get lifted off the slope.
We continue to be surprised how fearless Beckett is in certain situations, such as with the zipline, and now the paragliding. It’s kind of odd, because he gets freaked out by other things, such as strange dogs, even when they’re not hassling him. The drive up made him a little nervous due to the steep hillside, but once we got to the top it was all systems go!
Just Chillin’
If the weather is good, you’re out of the van and into the air in about 3 minutes.
Unfortunately, Kirsten’s flight got delayed by clouds, so she was up there for 3 hours! Right before sunset the clouds broke just long enough for her to take off.
And here was Kirsten’s reward for the long delay – a beautiful sunset from the sky!
Finally, just one shot from my flight. I didn’t pay for pictures, so just did a selfie while hoping not to drop my camera.
OK, all the photos of us aside, the views up there were amazing. The ride is so smooth and gentle that you just enjoy the feeling of soaring like a bird.
Ölüdeniz is the little town in the foreground.This is the mountain we launch from.
Even if you don’t go paragliding, the views of everyone landing are really cool, too.
At times, you can see a couple dozen paragliders in the air.
All good things must come to an end, but landings are part of the fun. There’s a little strip of grass along the beach where all the gliders come in. Our company had the flights go between two buildings to land close to their shop.
Beckett on final approachKirsten coming in
Finally, an action video of Beckett’s launch, Kirsten and Beckett’s flights, and Beckett’s landing.
We’d recommend this to almost anyone. It’s easy to be a bit nervous about doing it, but once in the air, all worries are forgotten. The views are incredible and all three of us agree that it’s one of the coolest things we’ve ever done.
TIPS
The cost here runs from 150 to 220 TL (about $70 to $105 US), which includes transportation, admission to the mountain, and your ride. Prices are probably higher in peak season. Kirsten used ReAction and Beckett and I used Gravity, which was a bit cheaper.
Photos and videos are extra, and they generally will end up costing you $30 to $50. Yes, it’s a lot, but the photos are an incredible souvenir.
We didn’t make any reservations, and that was ok for May. In Summer, you’d probably want to, especially if you have a large group.
Visiting the the Acropolis and Parthenon was never that high on my priority list. I always figured I’d get there and it’d be cool to see, but it wasn’t a place I just HAD to visit. I definitely got more excited to see it this year as I taught the kids Ancient Greek history. And once our travel plans included Greece, we decided to spend 2 days in Athens mostly just to see the Acropolis and Parthenon.
A little refresher: the Acropolis is the name of the gigantic rock in the middle of the city. The Parthenon is only one of the buildings on top of the Acropolis but clearly the most famous. The Parthenon was started in 447BC as a temple to the Goddess Athena who was the patron of the city of Athens (hence the name). The building and most of the statues and carvings have been destroyed, largely by Christians and Muslims that took over the city in the last 2000 years. The worst damage to the structure itself came from an explosion in 1687.
There is a new museum that contains what is left of the pieces of these statues and also show models of the original Parthenon and what the statue scenes were on the front and back pediments. Both sides told a story: one of Athena winning Athens from Poseidon and the other side shows Athena’s birth from Zeus.
Model of the East pediment of Athena being born from Zeus’s headModel of the West pediment showing Athena winning Athens from Poseidon
After visiting the museum, it was time to hike up the Acropolis and check it out. You pass some ruins and this cool amphitheater on the way up. It was a neat little stop off and a great excuse to rest and catch our breath.
Once we got to the top and saw the Parthenon, I have to say I was blown away. The building is impressive even though its missing all of its statues, pediments and friezes and is largely destroyed. But one can just imagine what it must have looked like when it was completed. I so wished I could travel back in time to see it in all its glory. And to see the magnificent statue of Athena that it housed but has sadly been lost. I kept trying to imagine what it would’ve been like to be here 2400 years ago and was so in awe of the buildings.
The pediments were in the triangles at the top of the buildingThe pediments were in the triangles at the top of the building
And then there are the views of Athens from up top. You get an almost 360 degree view of the city and can even see out to the sea. Chuck and I could’ve sat there for hours just taking in the views.
Another neat building on top of the Acropolis is the Erechtheion or “Old Temple” of Athena.
The Erechtheion or “Old Temple” of Athena
Lastly, here are some pictures of the The Propylaea which was a monumental gate at the western end of the Acropolis.
Mara: Ever since I was 3 or 4, I wanted to the visit the Eiffel Tower. My mom promised she would take me there. I finally went at age 9. The first time I saw it, it was the best thing ever.
(Mom here: As Mara said, we started talking about the Eiffel Tower when Mara was 3 or 4. I don’t remember why exactly – if there was a book we read with the Eiffel Tower in it or what – but I do remember the conversation and telling her about Paris and the Tower. And I promised I would take her there some day. In fact, I even added it to my bucket list. Over the past 5-6 years, Paris got brought up more times than I can count. We’d always talk about going to Paris and I kept promising her that “some day” I would take her. So once we decided to spend 2 months in Spain, it became a no-brainer to fly up to Paris. By that point, Beckett was almost as excited to go as well.
Getting to Paris was only half of it. The REAL excitement was finally seeing the Eiffel Tower and seeing it up close. This was the moment we talked about over many years and Mara’s reaction to seeing it was priceless (see below).
Even though Mara is scared of heights, she was brave and went up it at 9:30pm at night. She was only scared for a little bit but quickly got comfortable and had no problems going to the tippy top.
THIS was the highlight of her, and our, trip to Paris. And it was worth the wait!)
Our first up-close view of the Eiffel Tower
Here are some pictures of us in front of the Eiffel Tower:
Mara: When we went up it, I was scared. But then I got used to it. It took an hour to get to the tippy top. But it was worth it. The views were amazing. It got so late.
This is pretty indicative of the night at that point – it was about 11pm and Mara was wiped and Beck was wired from being overtired
After our 2 days in Marrakech, we flew back into Seville airport and stayed for 2 nights to check out the city.
Unfortunately, it started off in the house of pain, as we left the airport at midnight for our 20 minute drive to our hostel, The Grand Luxe Hostel, which was downtown, near the cathedral.
Did I say 20 minute drive? Oops, make that a 2-hour drive! Seville is notorious for confusing streets, and once we missed one turn (which was almost inevitable, given their poor signage), we were hosed. Finally, around 2 am, I flagged a taxi and had him lead us to the hotel. I felt good that even though we were less than a half mile away, he had to call and ask for directions, and it took about 7-8 minutes of twists and turns to finally get there.
To add insult to injury, there’s no parking at the hostel, so I had to drive up and park the car about a block from where I flagged the taxi.
After that, everything was great and we had a really fun 2 days in Seville. The buildings are all so gorgeous downtown and they’ve been maintained and restored well. Hard to explain, but the city just “has it”. We remarked a few times that we’d have loved to spend our Spain time living here.
Apart from seeing the cathedral and visiting the Real Alcazar, we just wandered around, ate, and chilled. Here are some of the photos we took along the way.
Our hostel was just down to the left from those umbrellas sitting outside. (The view is from the tower at the Cathedral.Looks like a movie set of SpainFountain outside the cathedral
They had a bunch of horse-drawn buggies queued up in many spots around the city, so we decided to give our legs a rest and go for a ride.
I guess horses have the right of way
We took a spin through a park near the Plaza de Espana. Very, very cool!
While walking around Seville, you could almost close your eyes and take a picture of something cool. For example, all these narrow streets.
We walked over to the Metropol Parasol, supposedly the largest wood building in the world. Looks like a giant waffle fry! Very interesting, but quite different than anything else in Seville.
While wandering through the shops, we found a taste of America. Literally!
We made it out of here with only a purchase of Goldfish crackers. Everything else was 2-3x US prices.
A few more random shots of cool stuff
Finally, got a gorgeous sky while having dinner outside.
Within the medina (old city) in Marrakech, Jamaa el Fna Square (hereafter, “the square”) is at the heart of the action. This is what you picture when you think of Marrakech and is what you see in movies and TV shows.
It’s a huge open area, ringed by restaurants and shops. During the day, it’s populated by snake charmers, henna ladies, monkey wranglers, and orange juice salesmen. We didn’t take any pictures of the monkeys because it was really appalling how they were chained by the neck and dragged around.
We’d heard a lot about how aggressive the entertainers were and it was fairly true, but not a big deal if you’re prepared. When you take your pictures with the snake people or others, whatever you offer, they’ll try to get 5 to 10x as much. You just say no and ask if they want what you’re offering or nothing. Then they’ll just back off, take it, and move on.
To some extent, they can sense who’s uncomfortable and will probably pressure you more if you are. At the end of the day, you have the power because you have the money. It’s not like you have any contract to give them a certain amount. I gave the snake guys about 20 dirham ($2.50), but it’s not like there’s a posted price. Just seemed reasonable to me.
In the late afternoon, the cobras and monkeys clear out, restaurant stalls set up, and the crowds build. We visited the square several times during our 2 days in Marrakech and have stitched together a photo tour to give you an idea of what’s going on.
Here’s the snake charmers. There were about 3 little setups like this in the square. The guy standing up makes the noise you associate with snake charmers, but it’s really just to draw a crowd. It has nothing to do with “charming” the cobra.
Step right up and see the cobra!Beckett was fascinated by the cobras, but didn’t want to get too close. They’ll let you sit really close if you want to.UNLEASH THE FURY!
And who doesn’t want to wear a fez?
Here’s a glimpse of more of the daytime action at the square:
Lots of stands selling fresh squeezed OJ
Around 4ish, a huge cluster of pop-up restaurants start to assemble in the middle of the square.
They assemble and take down these stalls every day.
Night falls, the crowds pick up, and the restaurants are in full swing.
As you walk through the restaurant stalls, each place has one or two wranglers that shove a menu in your face and try to get you to eat there. Mostly you just walk by them, but it’s annoying when you actually want to read the posted menus and they won’t leave you alone for 2 seconds.
We stopped and got kebabs, tagine, bread, couscous, and fritters for about $17 total.
We also had a separate stop for some mint tea and dessert.
A few more random pictures of the action:
Finally, here are a couple videos where I pan around the square.
While we enjoy some sightseeing while we travel, we enjoy activities and adventures even more. So once we booked our tickets to Morocco, I started looking for fun things to do while there. I came across some highly-recommended ATV tours, and since riding ATVs was on Kirsten’s bucket list, we decided to go for it.
The company picked us up near our hotel and drove us about 40 minutes out to their center in the desert. We started off by driving a bit over an hour, winding through palm groves and the occasional little village.
Taking a break about halfway through our tour
Apparently being a shepherd is still an actual occupation. We passed several shepherds tending their flock and moving them around for grazing.
On our way back, we took a break at a little Berber settlement where we had tea and pastries.
I got to / had to pour the tea for our table. You start the pour low, then lift the pot higher as you get the aim settled correctly.
Beckett and Mara also got a chance to drive the ATVs with our guide helping them.
This was Beckett’s favorite part.
A boy passed by with his donkey, and our guide got him to let Beckett take a little ride.
Hey, camels! Gotta take a picture with the camels, right?
We got back to the base and saw the camel tour finishing up. Looks fun, but uncomfortable.
Overall, we had a blast on the tour. Just riding the ATVs was fun, but it was also really cool to see the countryside and how people live out there. It’s a view we’d have never gotten in the Medina.
We used a company called Dunes & Desert and the cost was 55 Euros per driver, 15 E for each kid. The total tour lasted 2 1/2 hours or so.
One of the highlights of our trip to Barcelona was visiting La Sagrada Familia.
The Basílica i Temple Expiatori de la Sagrada Família is a large Catholic church designed by Antoni Gaudí. It was less than 1/4 complete at the time of his death in 1926 and currently its about 1/2 complete. The Basílica is quite unconventional and unique from any other church I’ve visited. One of the facades is more conventional but the inside, decorations, geometry and the like are completely unique.
Frankly, I loved it. It was unexpected but grand and beautiful yet strange in parts. I could’ve spent hours inside the main sanctuary.
The first thing we did upon arriving was take the elevator to the top of one of the towers. Here we got great views of the city.
From there, we had to walk down a tiny spiral staircase which kind of freaked all of us out. I got a bit dizzy from going around and around and around for nearly 400 steps.
Down, down, down we go
After we recovered from walking down the tower, we explored the main sanctuary.
Some pictures of the outside:
Logistics: We bought our tickets ahead of time from the official website. We bought tickets for the basilica and for the towers. The tickets for the tower had a specific time so we entered the basilica about 15 minutes before our tower time, navigated to the tower, and up we went. FYI, if you’re really scared of heights or get bad claustrophobia, it might be best to skip the tower part.
We just finished spending 3 days in Barcelona and loved it!
After taking an early-Saturday flight in from Malaga, we wandered up La Rambla (a big pedestrian/shopping street), then went to the FC Barcelona football game that night.
Sunday was pretty chill, as we went up to Guell Park, then just wandered and ate.
On Monday, we went to La Sagrada Familia, the church designed by Antoni Gaudi. It was really spectacular and much different from “normal” churches. We took an elevator to the top and got a great view of the city. After that, it was more wandering and eating, then early to bed to catch our 6:15 am flight back home on Tuesday.
We covered the football game and La Sagrada Familia in separate posts:
It’s really hard to call Barcelona anything but a Grand European city. We spent a lot of time strolling and eating, which really is the way to enjoy a city like this. There was so much detail in the architecture, public spaces, and food options, that it would be a shame to rush just to see the A-list attractions.
After being in Spain for about a month, one thing about going to Barcelona threw me for a loop initially – most of the signs aren’t in Spanish. What are they in, you ask? Well, they’re in Catalan. Barcelona is part of Catalonia, an autonomous community within Spain’s borders, and they’ve got their own language. Many signs also have Spanish listed below, and from what I could tell, many people speak both. But Catalonian independence is a hot issue, which may come to a vote in 2014. Didn’t directly affect anything for us, but it was interesting to observe.
The kids were both reluctant to go, since we’ve spent a lot of time on the road in the last few months. But they ended up having a good time at the football game, feeding pigeons, and snacking around the city. Kirsten and I loved the look and feel of the city, all the little bars and cafes, and the overall vibe. We’d love to get back for a few days without the kids someday.
Pretty sweet looking Post OfficeDon’t trust the smile on that lobster’s face!Lots of street performers around.
Next 4 pictures are from Park Guell. It was kind of interesting, but not really worth the cost of getting in (about 28E / US$40 for the family).
Front view of the most popular section of Guell Park.Great view of the city and ocean from the top of the park.Interesting stone work. The walkway behind is also kind of cool, but the pictures didn’t turn out.
The big boulevards like La Rambla had plenty of cool buildings:
Mara at the Cathedral, not the same as La Sagrada Familia.
Another Gaudi building, Casa BatloNothing famous about this, just interestingA little play at Plaza Catalunya
The side streets also had plenty of interesting stuff to see.
Must be laundry dayNothing like a light snack!
Mara and Beckett got to do one of their favorite things – chase pigeons!
Mara and Beckett act out “Where’s Waldo?”
We also found breakfast at a place called Milk Bar, which had insanely good French toast, topped with berries and Greek Yogurt.
Finally, who doesn’t like a city where you can get Happy Pills?!
Logistics: We stayed at Som Nit Born which had basic, but clean family rooms and was located near the Gothic Quarter and other sites.
For a few years now, Kirsten had a bucket list item of attending a big-time European soccer match. So once we made plans to come to Spain, we started working out how to knock this off.
Barcelona was already on our list to visit while in Spain, and FC Barcelona is one of the top teams in the world and regarded by many as one of the great teams of all time, so we decided to schedule our trip there to coincide with a game.
Camp Nou is the stadium for FCB and it’s big, holding about 99,000, the vast majority of which are season tickets. Lucky for us, they were playing a terrible team the week we were going, so were able to find 4 seats together after some searching. 4 seats together in the 3rd of 4 levels ran us 43 Euros each.
First impression as we walked in – WOW. What an incredibly beautiful pitch (field)!! Seems weird to fawn over some grass, but it was immaculate and spectacular!
Beckett and I are wearing the FCB jerseys we bought in Chiang Mai before leaving. They’ve got to be authentic, right?!
There were about 75,000 in attendance for the game, making it about 75% full. People sang team cheers and songs at times, but it was fairly quiet most of the time.
It was also much different than a US sporting event in that it was all about the game. No music during dead balls, no halftime entertainment, no contests, no smoke and pyros during the player introductions. The food was very basic – just a few sandwiches, hot dogs, and popcorn, but no “culinary experience”. What a concept, eh?
The game itself was great – Barca scored in the 2nd minute and went on to win 6-0. Messi had a couple goals and Neymar had a rocket for the 6th goal. While it wasn’t the intense and rowdy experience one often associates with European soccer, it was still a fantastic experience and definitely gave us a better appreciation of the game.
Surprisingly, this was about as crazy or rowdy as it got, with flag waving and cheering.Pregame handshakesFree kickGoalkeeper is in trouble here but the pass across didn’t connectThe goalkeeper came way out and Messi chipped the shot over his head and into the netGOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!Layin’ out for a save6-0 is about as good as it gets!Lots of fun merchandise outside the gates.
When we were booking our trip back from Chiang Mai to Washington DC, we found an itinerary that had a connection in Beijing. Putting on our maximizing hats once again, we realized we could create a 13 hour layover – enough time to go see some of the sights.
China has a 24 hour transit visa that lets you go into the country at certain airports without a pre-approved visa, as long as you can prove that you’re leaving the country within 24 hours. We just went through the normal foreigner immigration line, told the agent what we were doing and breezed through. No fees, no hassle.
Once through immigration, we grabbed breakfast and met up with our guide and driver. No way we were doing this on our own!
Here’s how our itinerary stacked up:
5:40am Land 5:40-8:00am Clear immigration, eat, get cash, meet up with guide
8:00-9:00am Drive to Forbidden City (slow this day due to morning traffic) 9:00-10:30am Explore Forbidden City 10:30am Drive by Tiananmen Gate and Tiananmen Square (We didn’t walk in – just a drive-by) 10:45-1:00pm Drive to Mutianyu section of Great Wall, with stop at McDonald’s for lunch. Yes, it’s shameful to eat McD’s there, but it was quick and time was of the essence, plus we knew the kids would actually eat. 1:00-2:30pm Hike the Great Wall 2:30-3:00pm Souvenir shopping and pit stops 3:00-4:00pm Drive back to Beijing airport 6:30pm Fly from Beijing to Washington Dulles
This itinerary worked very well for us, especially considering the weather had temps in the 40s with a stiff breeze. On a nicer day, we’d have liked to have more time at both locations.
Kir was super excited about seeing the Forbidden City especially since seeing the movie “The Last Emperor”. We entered through the East Gate then walked around the moat to the South Gate. Unfortunately the stiff breeze made it super cold and Beckett didn’t have a hat so he was miserable the entire time. So instead of continuing quickly through the whole city and leaving through the North Gate, we opted to turn around almost halfway in and exit through the East Gate.
Moat and wall protecting the Forbidden CityOutside the South Gate of Forbidden City2 of the Inner Golden Water Bridges
Hall of Supreme HarmonyHall of Supreme Harmony Check out Beckett covering his ears – poor kid was so coldThrone inside the Hall of Supreme HarmonyHall of Central HarmonyThrone in the Hall of Central HarmonyThrone inside the Hall of Preserved HarmonyI love seeing the modern city of Beijing in the distanceGate of Heavenly PurityThese metal pots stored water for firefighting, since the building interiors were mostly wood. They’d light a fire under them in winter to prevent freezing.Inside the Palace of Heavenly PurityCeiling
Next stop, the hat store to get hats for both the kids so they wouldn’t freeze on the Great Wall.
All smiles while warming up after the Forbidden City
We really enjoyed driving around Beijing. Some things reminded us of Thailand but many others were just like you’d expect Beijing to look:
A quick stop at McDonald’s for lunch.
Finally, after about a 90 minute drive, we got to the Great Wall.
Taking the chair lift up to the wallChair lift up, toboggan down and Great Wall in the distanceOutside of the wall
After about 1:15 of hiking, it was time to take the toboggans back to the bottom. Beckett had to share a toboggan with Kirsten but sat in front and got to steer the whole way down. Mara was next followed by Chuck. The kids LOVED this and begged to go up so they could ride down again.
Uh oh! The Mongols are waiting for you at the bottom!
Overall, this really was a perfect day trip. We had some nervousness about a number of aspects but everything worked out fine. The kids were very cold at the Forbidden City, which was our fault for not getting them geared up correctly. Both of them LOVED the Great Wall. Even though our time was limited at each attraction, we were delighted to get a peek into China.
Thailand has a reputation for hair-raising driving conditions, and that reputation is well-earned!
I’ve driven a car for almost the entire six months we’ve been here, and progressed from being “terrified beginner” to “almost native”.
Starting out
To begin with, it was pretty terrifying getting into the rental car at the airport. I had to remember to get in on the right side of the car, and once I was in, it just felt weird. The pedals are the same as our cars in the US, thank goodness, and we had an automatic, so I didn’t have to try and shift with my left hand. (Note – there are many options to rent a manual transmission for cheaper. It’s worth the bit of $ to upgrade in the beginning)
As we left the lot, my main goal was to make it home without killing anyone. With the number of pedestrians and people on scooters, that was no given. The Chiang Mai airport is in the city, which meant lots of traffic, but also plenty of visual cues to go to the right place.
Easing into traffic was ok, but my mirrors were almost useless because I was reflexively looking in the wrong place. (They’re mounted in the same spots as US cars, but since you’re sitting on the other side, you have to look up and left for the center mirror.) Even if I looked in the correct spot for the mirror, I saw a different perspective than I was used to. And while I processed that, someone probably pulled out in front of me. Thankfully, Kirsten navigated and kept an eye out for hazards in front of of us.
Getting in the swing of things
It only took a few days to get reasonably comfortable with left-hand driving – probably about a week to get 80%. I went up the wrong ramp at the mall once, but I caught myself before making any other major mistakes. Over time, the smaller habits were hardest to break, such as walking to the wrong side of the car, and looking over the wrong shoulder when I was backing up.
After about a month, I was pretty comfortable and able to relax. I still wasn’t driving like a Thai, but at least I was getting accustomed to the action going on around me and anticipating challenges better.
Turning Thai
Eventually I started to drive more like the locals, which is actually a lot of fun once you’re used to it. While it looks like chaos, certain aspects make more sense than the strictly regimented driving I was used to back home. Kirsten and I joked about a “Thai driving checklist” where I completed certain maneuvers I’d never do in the US but that the locals do all the time without batting an eye.
Below are some of the different things we see regularly.
Running Red Lights
Red lights are the equivalent of a yellow in the US. It pretty much means “OK, only 2 or 3 more cars. Maybe 4”. If you stop on a yellow, you WILL cause an accident. They time the lights for a 2-3 second gap before the next green, so this is rarely a problem.
Double Right-Turn
Don’t you hate it when traffic backs up in a turn lane and you miss the light? Thais will turn from the adjacent straight lane, so a lot more cars get through the light. Certain intersections would be a complete mess without this. Of course you have to learn to avoid the adjacent lane if you want to go through the intersection because you’ll sit there waiting for the turn light and lose the chance to go straight.
U-Turn Mania
All the major roads have medians, so any time you want to get to the other side you have to U-Turn. They often have little cutouts for U-turns, besides being able to do it at lights. It’s not necessarily different rules than the US, but I’ve done more U-Turns here in 6 months than in my whole life cumulatively. And even if there is a no U-Turn sign, the Thais will use it anyway. Our friend actually got pulled over and ticketed for this – who knew there were actually traffic cops?!?
Personal Safety? Meh! This is a hard one to wrap my head around. Thailand has some of the highest driving death rates in the world, in large part because people disregard safety in many ways. Despite helmet laws, probably only 30% of people wear one. I regularly see an entire family on a scooter with a toddler standing between adults. Scooters will cut right in front of you without looking. They will also drive on the wrong side of the road towards you, at night, without lights on.
Traffic Flows to Least Resistance
This is the most challenging thing to deal with in the beginning because your instincts are WRONG. Vehicles go wherever it makes sense for the driver. And what makes sense is not always the same as “marked lanes.” Think of it like flowing water – it will fill gaps and voids because it’s the natural thing to do.
If there’s enough room on a wide inner shoulder to pass, cars will go there.
Scooters regularly create a lane along the outer shoulder.
When traffic is stopped, scooters will create lanes between cars.
Scooters drive against traffic on the shoulder if it’s quicker.
Cars will park in an outer lane to run into a store and get something.
It’s Not Personal!
This is a natural results of the least resistance rule and one of the things I love most about driving here. Everyone seems to understand that you take what you can get, traffic-wise, and they don’t get offended when you do what you gotta do. In 6 months, I haven’t heard more than a small handful of honks from drivers being pissed at one another. US drivers are so “Me-Centric”. Americans will crowd up and defend “my space”. Even with all the traffic here, I find I can get across lanes more easily than the US because there are almost always little gaps I can fit into. And if you have to do something unusual to get somewhere, no one bats an eye because they do it when they need to, as well.
Nearly Killing Someone
There are 2 forms of this. One is the everyday zipping in and out of traffic with you narrowly avoiding the people around you. These close calls count on everyone paying attention and you can usually expect that all parties are prepared for this. It’s harrowing in the beginning, but you don’t raise an eyebrow after a few months.
Then there’s “HOLY S—, I ALMOST KILLED THAT GUY!” I had one of those on the night of the Yi Peng lantern release at Mae Jo. We were cruising home on the highway around 11 pm and all of the sudden there’s a guy carrying a bicycle standing directly in front of me! It should have been obvious to him that I was coming, but who knows what he was thinking. I had no chance to stop, but luckily there was no traffic and I could swerve around him. If I hadn’t had my full attention up front, he’d just be a spot on the road. That really got the adrenaline pumping!
I’ve been telling Kirsten I’m going to miss driving here. There’s just a certain efficiency and natural flow to things that make it more comfortable and practical at times. I can’t say that it’s better because there are more accidents and deaths, but provided you’re a survivor, it’s pretty cool.
Practical Tips
Get an International Driving Permit before coming. It translates your license into many languages, none of which are Thai, so it hardly makes sense. But I think it’s useful if you get pulled over. At the very least, it’s cheap and can’t hurt. At the moment police are stopping expats in droves, and you get fined 500 Baht if you don’t have a Thai or International Driver’s License. You can get one thru AAA in the States even if you aren’t a AAA member. Click here for the application.
Liability insurance is included with the car, so you don’t need to arrange anything.
If you can spend a couple weeks here before driving, do so. It really helps in learning how traffic moves before you have to do it yourself.
If you get in an accident, let the insurance company handle it. Especially if it’s not your fault. You may get intimidated into paying for something, but we’ve heard through other people’s stories that once the insurance is involved, usually the other party will back off and go about their way. I’ve also heard that the insurance adjuster will come to the scene if you call them, but I don’t swear by this since I have no experience
Get someone to accompany you for your first few days of driving. They can handle directions and be another set of eyes for safety.
Flashing lights or a short horn toot is a warning that someone is coming and you should watch out.
If you do get pulled over, ask if you can pay your fine on the spot. It’s usually only 400B and saves you hassle. Whether it makes it into the city coffers or the officer’s pocket is not your problem.
Scooters are fine for a little bit of in-city driving, but only if you’re used to riding them. This is not really the place you want to learn.
The primary dates of the Loi Krathong and Yee Peng Festival spanned Saturday November the 16th through Monday the 18th this year and each day was very eventful. On Saturday, we went to the Sky Lantern launch near Mae Jo University, and then we went into town on Sunday and Monday nights. This post covers Sunday night, and we have Monday night’s parade in Part 2.
We met up with some friends near Tha Pae gate and walked down to Narawat Bridge, which is the heart of the action. It’s closed off to traffic (mostly) and you’ve got a huge crowd doing all sorts of crazy stuff you shouldn’t do in a crowd.
Along the way, we saw some ladies dressed up for some sort of exhibition, lots of hanging lanterns, and stopped at a wat to launch another lantern.
Traditional Thai clothingMonks lighting and releasing a lanternYou can write wishes on the lanterns so we each wrote a message then launched it into the sky
At the bridge, the first order of business was to buy and launch a krathong in the river. Krathongs are little floating containers, often built of leaves and natural materials, that also have a candle and a few sticks of incense. You light the incense and candles, then cast your krathong off into the river to send away your worries, anger, etc.
As you can see, krathongs come in all shapes and sizes. The ones we looked at ranged in cost from 20 to 150 Baht ($0.65 to $5.00).
These krathongs are little turkeys.
There are a lot of people making krathongs right behind the tables where you buy them. Neat to see them get assembled.
After perusing several tables, we made our selections and were good to go!
From the tables, we headed down to a small dock along the river that was PACKED with people trying to launch their krathongs. As a bonus, there were several idiots shooting off fireworks right near there. One of them shot onto the dock right under someone, but thankfully it didn’t blow up. Once we reached the river, we each lit the candles and incense on our krathong (well, attempted to light, as they kept blowing out), and sent them down the river.
After that, we decided to head onto the bridge, where the biggest crowds were. It was certainly exciting and festive, but dangerous and noisy as well.
There were more people shooting fireworks off the side of the bridge, plus there was a stiff breeze so the sky lanterns were often blowing sideways into the crowd or getting stuck on the telephone wires. Beckett got overwhelmed and really wanted to leave. Unfortunately for him, his pleas were ignored as we took the scene in for a few minutes and grabbed some photos of the sky and river.
Persevering paid off for us, because around 8:45 they shot off big fireworks down the river. Seeing the explosions in air set against a sea of drifting sky lanterns was super-cool. The video below is a pretty good representation of the scene.
After a few snacks on the way back through town, we decided to stop for a late-night foot and leg massage for the whole family. 30 minutes for only 80Baht each (<$3). The Thai ladies really loved Beckett and laughed at everything he said!
At the top our list when we decided to come to Chiang Mai was attending the Yee Peng festival. Once I saw the pictures and video of this event from fellow bloggers, I knew I had to attend. In fact, this festival was one of the reasons we stuck with our plan of doing 6 months in Chiang Mai when we arrived instead of traveling around.
Yee Peng is a festival celebrated by the Lanna people of Northern Thailand. It’s a religious ceremony paying homage to the Buddha. The sky lanterns — known as khom loi — are released into the sky while making a wish. At the Mae Jo event we attended, everyone releases their lantern at the same time.
It was very hard to get accurate details about this event. They don’t release the actual date til a month or so before the event, there isn’t much about it in English, and what you can find in English is unofficial. I’ve been a bit stressed about it for the last couple of months trying to figure out where the best event was, what date and time, was this the same as the other Yee Peng festival being held in the city, etc. In the end, we got it all figured out and attended one of the coolest festivals on the planet.
Despite leaving pretty early, we hit a bunch of traffic going to the event and when we finally got nearby, we couldn’t find parking. Cue major stress. But then we found parking near the first gate. Best 100 Baht I’ve spent to date. We then had to walk about 1 km or so to the main event gate and we were finally inside – much later than we wanted but inside nonetheless.
We stopped to buy 3 lanterns then walked into the venue just after 6 pm as the event was just getting started. After finding a teeny tiny spot of lawn to call ours, we waited and listened as it got dark. The ceremony consisted of asking the Buddhists to pray, some quiet meditation time, and other activities that I didn’t quite understand. There was also chanting by the Buddhist monks, which was really cool.
After the prayers and chanting (about 7:45 pm), it was time for the big launch. There are a few thousand candles on 3-foot high stakes driven into the ground throughout the venue and they told everyone to light those first. Then, they announced for everyone to begin lighting lanterns and hold onto them for a few minutes as they fill with hot air. (Note: They do directions in English and Thai on loudspeakers, so it’s easy to know. But even if you don’t understand, just follow the crowd!)
We decided to let everyone light their lanterns first and just enjoy watching the first wave float into the sky. There was no way I was missing the “big moment”.
When they gave the signal, everyone released their lanterns into the air all at once.
It was breathtaking!
I took so many pictures but often just held the camera away from my face so I could watch in real life and not behind a camera lens. I just stood there in awe and was overwhelmed by the beauty of all of these lanterns in the air floating off into the distance. I actually started to cry at points because I was so overtaken with how beautiful it was, and how grateful I was to be able to attend this festival. I felt so fortunate just to be there. It was a moment and a feeling I don’t think I’ll ever forget.
The kids were oohing and aahing as well and even Chuck had this look of amazement on his face.
After a few minutes, they launched fireworks into the sky.
After letting the people near us light another lantern, we decided to light ours. The kids were so into this part; especially Beckett. He was the perfect height to hold the lantern but also peer underneath to watch the flame as it fills. The look on his face while lighting each lantern was priceless. Apparently we weren’t the only ones who thoughts so, as people kept coming over to photograph him. No lie, he attracted so many people that it became funny and I took a picture of all the people taking his picture (see below).
Beckett’s first taste of celebrity status. There were a few photographers on the other side, t0o.
We talked to one of the photographers and they sent us this picture of Beckett.
We lit 3 lanterns and watched them float off into the sky.
After that, we went around and helped other people. The lanterns are quite big and tall and it takes more than 2 people to hold it and expand the top so it fills with air without catching on fire. People seemed to love having the kids’ help and sometimes Chuck and I would take their photos.
Once most of the lantern lighting was over, we strolled around the grounds. We were able to get up close to the Buddha, torches, and other decorations that we couldn’t approach when it was so crowded before.
We were on the grounds until about 9 pm, when they turn off the lights. Even though it seemed most people had left well before us, it was a complete traffic jam of people walking the 1km back to the gate. Took us about 50 minutes. Since we were moving so slowly, we stopped off to buy krathongs (floating lanterns) from the Mae Jo University kids (they were so fun and nice!). Beckett picked his out first (for 20Baht – $0.60) then walked down the water where they lit the incense and candle and helped him place it on the canal. Mara then picked out one and set it floating down the canal. I of course couldn’t resist, so the kids picked one out for me and off it went down the canal.
Upon getting out of the gate, we saw traffic wasn’t moving so we found a mini-mart and bought some snacks and drinks to hold us over while we waited. When we went back to our car, we noticed 2 cars had an accident pulling out of the parking lot. And by accident, I mean there were 2 cars barely touching and it didn’t even look like there was a dent or even scratched paint. However, they left their cars there blocking everyone in. The kids were still eating and traffic wasn’t moving so its not like we would’ve left for a while anyway. Eventually the kids were done eating and went to the car to go to sleep (about 10:40pm at this point) and traffic had cleared out. Finally common sense prevailed and one of the drivers came over and asked if we wanted to leave (um, yes!), so they moved their cars and everyone was able to head home.
Accident!
This festival is definitely one of the coolest things we’ve ever done. I am so grateful that we were able to attend it and witness the beauty of the lanterns floating off into the sky. If you happen to be in Chiang Mai around November, this is a must-do as the pictures and commentary do not fully do the reality justice.
Logistics:
The Yee Peng festival we attended near Mae Jo University was a separate event from the Loi Krathong/Yee Peng festival being celebrated throughout Chiang Mai. The Mae Jo event was held Saturday, November 16, 2013 and the Loi Krathong event also kicked off on November 16, 2013 and ran (officially) to Monday, November 18, 2013.
We attended the Loi Krathong/Yee Peng festivities in downtown Chiang Mai on Sunday the 17th and and Monday the 18th and it’s different than the Mae Jo event, but also great fun.
Information about the date is hard to find and usually not announced til a month or so ahead of time. The event is is based on the full moon and lunar calendar and I *think* some years its held in October instead of November. I found out about the date from the Facebook group “Chiang Mai Events” and also from ChiangMai City News which posted the date less than a month beforehand.
If you want to get a decent view of things, I’d aim to be inside by 4:30-5pm. That was our original plan, but we got a little bit of a late start, and it also took us much longer to get there than planned.
Route 1001 goes North from the city and it’s not too far to Mae Jo, but the lights at the major cross streets caused big delays. Once you pass the University, you U-turn and make a left, then drive about a mile until you get to the spot where you walk down to the entrance. We got to the turnoff from 1001 about 4:30 pm and it took about 45 minutes to inch our way back to the parking and dropoff areas.
It was after 5pm as we got close to the first entrance and unfortunately there weren’t any parking spaces left on the side of the road so we started stressing out. Luckily, just past the main gate, someone had opened up a parking lot and we pulled right in, parked and forked over 100Baht happy as clams. At about 5:30pm we were parked right near the first main entrance.
And by main entrance, we mean the point from which you have to walk about 1km down to the real entrance!
There are food vendors set up all along the walk with the usual Thai street market fare. There are also a gazillion vendors selling lanterns. Do NOT buy one! You aren’t allowed to bring them in, and must buy the ones inside. The cool side effect of this was a steady stream of lanterns being released from the gate area throughout the entire evening because people had to light them or leave them.
The walk from the first entrance gate to the main entrance
Once inside the official gate, there is a place to buy the lanterns for 100 Baht each. We bought 3 which worked out about right.
From there, you walk another few minutes to the grounds and pass a restroom facility along the way.
There isn’t any food or drink sold inside the grounds so it’s best to buy that along the walk and cart it in or bring your own from home. We ate on the way and threw a few sandwiches in a backpack.
We got to the grounds around 6:15pm and by then it was PACKED. We found a tiny patch of grass that was kind of in a path at the back and claimed it. Unfortunately we were near another lantern buying stand and about as far away from the front as possible. Eventually we got our patch big enough to sit down and the entire walkway behind us filled in as well.
It turned out to be a decent location because once the lanterns were released, it was all in front of us in one big panorama of lanterns. If we were in the middle, there would’ve been lanterns all around us in a 360 degree circle which would’ve been cool as well, but maybe not been as amazing of a photo op.
It was also great because I was able to sneak out to go to the bathroom relatively easily. And while returning to my spot was a problem, I didn’t have to go far. Forget about that if you were in the middle somewhere. If at all possible, make your last bathroom run at 5:30 or before.
FYI, there is a 2nd set of bathrooms on the other side of the grounds (left side when facing the front) which were clean, Western and stocked with toilet paper, AND there was no wait.
They announce everything in Thai and English so you definitely know when its time to light your lantern and when its time to release. Please wait for the announcement – its very clear – but some people didn’t.
As mentioned above, we stayed on the grounds till nearly 9 pm when they said they were going to turn off the lights. Once we got back to the main entrance gate, there was a wall of people barely moving. It took us a good 50 minutes to walk the 1km back to the first gate. Traffic was creeping forward at this point so we found a mini-mart right near the gate (~50-100 meters to the left) and picked up ramen, yogurt and milk. The restaurants there were closed (so they said) and I wasn’t able to locate a toilet nearby.
By 10:45pm, traffic was pretty much gone so when we left, we drove right on out to the main road and cruised on home.
One more note, respectful clothing is necessary as they won’t let you in wearing tank tops and short shorts. Mara and I wore a t-shirt and capris while Beckett and Chuck were fine in a nice short sleeve shirt and shorts. Fireworks and alcohol aren’t permitted either and they have a lot of people at the gate checking out what you’re wearing and what you’re carrying.
As far as taking kids, it would probably be tough to take kids younger than 6 due to the crowds, long wait, firecrackers (along the walk only), and potential inconvenience of having to hit the bathroom at an inopportune time. However, I know plenty of folks took very young kids with no issues so you really need to be the judge. Our kids were grumbling a bit, but I think at this point they’re conditioned to being dragged around to stuff! We had also done a practice launch the day before, so they were motivated to hang in there until the big release.
One final note, there is also a paid version of this event put on for tourists a week after the ‘real’ event. They are 2 separate things. The one we attended is the ‘real’ event, which is free and a religious ceremony for the Thai people. The paid one is just for tourists and costs $100 USD. It looks more comfortable, less crowded, and dates are set far in advance, which is great for planning. More info on that at http://yeepenglanna.com/
In early October, we did our second border run to the Myanmar border at Mae Sai, which is about 4 1/2 hours from Chiang Mai. We drove up to Chiang Rai the first day, then planned to do our crossing on day 2, hit the Monkey & Fish Cave right afterward, then jet back to Chiang Mai.
Well, it didn’t quite shake out like that.
Our border crossing was uneventful, but we spent way more time than we expected with the monkeys, putting us in a bit of a rush. The mountains between Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai have a lot of twists and turns, and people drive CRAZY on them, so we didn’t want to go through them at night.
We’re jamming back towards Chaing Rai and all of the sudden the car loses power in the middle of the highway. Luckily I was able to coast to the side and get out of the traffic lanes. I tried restarting the car a couple times and had no luck.
Then we smelled gas, and bailed everyone out of the car, along with all our important stuff.
After a few minutes of gathering ourselves, I decide to go see if I can put the car into neutral and move it up a little bit to a better spot. When I turned the ignition to free the gear shift, I could hear gas pouring out of the bottom of the car. Again, I got out hastily and saw a wide pool of gas coming from underneath the car.
So there we are, about 30 minutes from the nearest city, and about 3 1/2 hours from home. No phone, don’t speak Thai. No clue what we’ll do about the car or what we’ll do that night. Definitely an “awww, shit!” moment, but both Kirsten and I were fairly calm about it, for no good reason.
There was a building nearby with what looked like a small restaurant and store, and we figured we’d go in and call the company we rented the car from, then figure out housing.
Meanwhile a woman came out from the store and started gesturing at and talking to us. We tried to indicate that we had car problems (though I suppose that was obvious), and wanted to use a phone. She kept talking to us and started gesturing toward the side of the building.
I followed her over and sure enough, around the side of the building was a little shop for a guy who does auto repair!
My new favorite repair shop
I wandered back there on my own and tried to indicate that my car was broken down right outside. He was pretty confused, but followed me partway out to the street. The lady who sent us to him, then poked her head out of a window and told him what was going on.
He came out front, looked under the car, and found some part of the fuel line that had come off. He then stuck it on, and had me drive back to his shop. Seemed weird to start up the car while sitting in a puddle of gas, but hey, I lived to tell about it.
Meanwhile the lady from the shop had a couple friends there who came out and checked out the kids. Many Thais love to touch our kids, especially Beckett with his blond hair. They also brought out water for Kir and the kids so they could stay comfortable while waiting.
Back in the shop, he jacked it up, pulled another part off the car, then got some rusty wire and bound the whole assembly back together. You hear the phrase about things being build with duct tape and baling wire – that was actually the case here. Verrrry confidence-inspiring.
Here’s the part for my car. Just a coil of rusty wire.The final repair job. What could go wrong?!
So after about 30 minutes he puts the car down and indicates he’s done. Someone else at his shop spoke limited English and indicated it was OK to drive to Chiang Mai as the car was, but that we should get it repaired there.
I’m figuring the fix is going to cost me $20-30. Costly for Thailand, but damn reasonable for a man stuck in the middle of nowhere! I gestured about “how much” to him and he shook his head. He wouldn’t even take money for fixing me up. Crazy!
I drove back out to the street, loaded up, and said goodbye to our new friends.
At this point, it was 4 pm and we were never going to make it back to Chiang Mai during daytime, plus now we have this gas leak repair of dubious integrity.
What to do? Well, we decided to use the last of my Starpoints and go spend one more night at the Le Meridien in Chiang Rai, then drive back to Chaing Mai in the morning. Took a little bit of funky logistics, but we got it all worked out.
So about 90 minutes after staring disaster in the face, we were poolside ordering cocktails and food from room service. Can’t believe we were lucky to break down next to an auto shop, on a day he’s open, at a time he’s open, when he could handle us right away, with a car problem he could actually fix. Once we were forced from the car due to gas fumes, we knew we’d have some sort of story, but didn’t see this ending coming!
Here are a few shots of our stay at the Le Meridien Chiang Rai, which was far better than being stuck roadside!
Sadly we had to deal with Mara’s first love and first heartbreak all in a single day. Her name is MaeKwan and she’s an Asian Elephant that Mara got to take care of for the day. Leaving her at the end of the day was such heartbreak for Mara and she refused to leave and couldn’t stop hugging her.
And that pretty much sums up the day.
Once again, I lack the adjectives to fully describe our day at the Patara Elephant Farm. Amazing. Educational. Incredible. And dare I say that this day will have a lasting impact on my kids.
They picked us up at our house, then drove about 20 minutes to part of their farm/reserve. There we were able to meet, feed, interact with and even get run over by some mamma and baby elephants.
This little guy was so playful and rammed into me a few times. Stepped on my toe too but it didn’t hurt.
We even got to interact with a baby elephant that was only 6 days old. So. Freaking. Cute!
After meeting these guys, we drove about 5 minutes to the main event. We started with a presentation by the owner about elephants, conservation, their mission at Patara, and some of the realities of the elephant population. He gave a great talk that was neither preachy or dramatic but set a great tone for the day and made what we were about to experience even more meaningful. It also made me regret going to the Maesa Elephant Camp which I’d already had mixed feelings about.
After getting our mahout clothes we went to our camp area and got to meet our elephants. (Mahouts are the elephant caretakers. At Patara, these guys are from the Karen hilltribe and the women of the community make these shirts and riding pants.)
First up was learning how to tell what mood they were in, how to approach them and how to make friends with them (Hint: have lots of sugarcane). We then fed them and learned their names and some Thai words to communicate with them.
Meeting and feeding MaeKwan. You can stick the sugar cane way back into the elephant’s mouth.Meeting and feeding MaeBonChon
Then we learned how to check their health. We learned to inspect dirt marks on each side of them (to make sure they’re sleeping evenly on both sides), checking their toenails for sweat (they only sweat thru their toenails), check the tear marks under their eyes and of course, the ins and outs of checking their poop. How many poops? Color? Size of fibers inside the poop? Smell? Squeezing it to make sure it holds moisture. Yeah, seriously. But it is an important part of taking care of them and really can tell you (well, them) a lot.
Hmmm, elephant poo
After we checked to make sure they were healthy, it was time to clean them off. This entailed whacking them with bunches of leaves to remove the dirt they blow over themselves. Then we walked them to the shower hose and hosed them down.
Brushing dirt off MaeKwan (she gets to eat the leaves when we’re done)Taking MaeKwan for a walkBeckett hosing MaeBonChon down
Next up was learning how to mount our elephants and ride them bareback, mahout-style. Chuck got on using the trunk to hoist himself up and I mounted mine by using its right front leg. Somehow it seems a long way down when you’re sitting up there. And with only a little rope to hold onto behind you, it was actually kind of scary at first.
We rode them for 45 minutes out of camp, up a muddy, steep hill and down the other side. Eventually we rode them along the road (what a treat for the drivers driving by) then down another muddy hill to the waterfall. I have to say, riding an elephant is EXHAUSTING! You’re trying to hold your legs up over its ears while balancing as its climbing up and down (and ripping various plants out of the ground to eat while its walking) all while holding onto a rope behind your body.
It was made tougher because I had Beckett in front sitting on the elephant’s head and he was holding onto my legs and nothing else. If the elephant dipped her head and he wasn’t holding onto me well, he would’ve slid down her trunk like a giant slide. So I’m holding on for dear life to him in front and the rope behind so we both didn’t fall off. After a while my legs started to tremble so I had to shift position which made it easier to maintain my balance.
Despite all this, at one point the elephant dipped to the side and turned its head which caused me to start to fall off sideways. A quick yell for help and the mahout came to my rescue and hoisted me back on top.
Once we were almost to the waterfall, Beck got off and walked because he was too tired of holding onto me. It was MUCH easier to ride after he got off, however, everyone seemed so worn out when we arrived at the camp!
Despite all that, it was such a cool experience. The scenery we went thru was gorgeous and the elephants can handle hills and mud much better than I can.
Chuck mounting MaeKwan via the trunk
I’m on an elephant!
Hello down there…So beautiful
Luckily when we arrived at the waterfall it was time for lunch. I gorged myself on fried chicken, coconut and other yummy things.
After lunch, we changed into our bathing suits and bathed the elephants in the water. The elephants seemed to love being in the water and were lounging around as we scrubbed them down.
Scrub a dub dub, 8 elephants in a tub
Then it was time for some group photos where we got sprayed by the elephants. I must say that I loved this part!
One of the highlights of the day for me
Sadly, our day with the elephants came to a close and after a brief final ride, it was time to say goodbye. As a parent, this part was heartbreaking to watch. Mara refused to take off her mahout clothes, kept hugging MaeKwan and kept saying she wouldn’t leave. Beckett then gave MaeBonChon a goodbye pat and burst into tears. Both kids had to be led away and Chuck had to carry Beckett and put him in the car. He proceeded to sob the entire ride home.
Goodbye my friend
To say that this experience had a big impact on them is an understatement. We didn’t just see elephants like you do in a zoo or feed them in passing. We got to know them a bit, earned their trust and spent a day helping these gentle creatures.
Mara said her favorite animal is now an elephant and I hope that she carries a little piece of this experience and her love of animals for the rest of her life.
Logistics: Patara Elephant Farm has earned its ranking as the #1 activity in Chiang Mai on TripAdvisor. The work they’re doing is awesome and if you’re ever looking to support an animal charity, please support them. Its a very pricey day out but money well spent.
The normal price for this program is 5,800 Baht per person ($190). However I read a blog post elsewhere about a a cheaper option (4,200 Baht pp) where 2 people share 1 elephant instead of everyone getting their own. I doubt adults can do this (each adult needs their own) but if you have young kids, this is the way to go. I’m kind of glad each kid didn’t have their own elephant as I think they got more out of it by sharing one with mom or dad.
I’m also so happy our kids were old enough to enjoy this activity (Beck is 7 and Mara is nearly 9). I actually wouldn’t take kids much younger than this although I know some do and have a great day.
Some advice:
– I’d recommend wearing light long pants. They do give you mahout clothes to put over your clothes but I wore capris and their pants were short on me (darn long legs 🙂 ) and I got chafed while riding the elephant. If you’re petite, you should be fine, but if not, longer pants are probably better. Chuck wore shorts and was fine though so long pants aren’t necessary.
– They take photos and videos all day (our CD had 981 photos from our whole group) so you really don’t need to bring your own. They give it to you for free at the end of the day.
– Take or wear a bathing suit and bring a towel. They move your bags for you while you’re riding the elephant and there are changing rooms at the waterfall so you can change there. After bathing them, you have the chance to towel off and change back into regular clothes. I had strap-on water shoes which were nice to have in the water (there are some rocks in there) but Chuck and the kids went in barefoot and were fine (flip flops in there isn’t a good idea).
– They provide water throughout, there is access to a bathroom except during the ride and you’re provided with a big lunch so no need to bring much unless you have allergies or need snacks frequently.
– Sunscreen and bug repellent is a good idea as well.
One of the bloggers I read took her kids to a cooking class with Sammy’s Organic Thai Cooking School while they were visiting Chiang Mai. Her kids are even younger than mine yet they were able to help in the kitchen some and it seemed like such a fun and educational day.
My kids LOVE to cook so I thought this would be super fun for all of us and since its at an organic farm, it would be educational to boot. However upon telling the kids I received one “meh” and one “I don’t want to go”. Sigh. I was so upset and almost canceled. Even the morning of Beckett didn’t want to go and was being less than cooperative.
That all started to change as the class started.
We were picked up at Thae Pae Gate in the city since we live in the suburbs and then were taken to a local Thai market. Sammy explained the different types of rice and where they came from and then we were shown how to extract coconut milk from coconuts.
Lots o’ riceSammy squeezing shredded coconut to extract coconut milkBeckett giving it a try
After the market tour we headed to Sammy’s farm. He first showed us different ingredients, passed them around and explained how/when they were used.
Then it was time to start cooking. First up, making curry paste. I made a yellow curry and Chuck did a jungle (red) curry. Actually, I should say Beckett made my paste and Mara did a large chunk of Chuck’s.
After the curry paste was made, it was time to cook it with chicken and other ingredients to make our final dish. When that was done, it was onto soup dishes: Chicken in Coconut Milk soup for me and Thai Vegetable Hot soup for Chuck. They gave Mara her own station to make coconut milk soup so I actually got to cook alone while Beckett took over making the veggie soup for Chuck.
Ingredients for Yellow Curry
Beckett garnishing his Yellow CurryMara showing off her Jungle CurryIngredients for Coconut Milk Soup
Next up was the stir fried dishes: Stir Fried Chicken with Holy Basil for Mara (I pretty much watched) and Pad Thai for Chuck and Beckett.
After all 3 dishes were done, it was finally time to eat. And eat. And eat some more. It was so tasty. And better yet, Beckett who won’t try anything devoured the vegetable soup, tried Pad Thai noodles and even tried a bite of yellow curry! Mara loved the yellow curry and the chicken with basil and mostly took down her bowl of coconut soup single-handedly. So not only did the kids cook and learned some things, THEY TRIED NEW FOODS!!!!! Hallelujah!
With full bellies, it was time to walk around the farm a bit then take a siesta in the hammocks strewn about the property. I so need to get me a hammock.
An hour later it was back to cooking. First up was Vegetable Spring Rolls for Mara (Beck even rolled one) and Chicken in Pandanus Leaves for Beckett and Chuck.
Beckett showing off the wrapped Chicken in Pandanus leaves
Pandanus plant – They just tear off a piece of plant and you use it as your wrapper
Mara wrapping spring rolls
Then Beckett and Mara made Pumpkin Custard while Chuck made Mango with Sticky Rice. My role at this point was just to take pictures and watch.
Mara and Beckett making Pumpkin CustardChuck with his Mango and Sticky Rice
Once again, we ate and ate before we made the trek back to town around 4pm.
I must say, I was blown away by the kids today. I couldn’t believe how well they were able to cook all by themselves and how quickly they picked everything up. We do let them cook at home (and Mara is turning into quite the little baker) but still, this involved some chopping with huge knives, working on the stove including adjusting the heat, and even garnishing the dishes to make them look prettier.
Aside from making the coconut soup, I barely cooked all day which I’m completely fine with. I acted as a sous chef for a couple of things and then got to stand back and observe my children learning, growing and turning into big kids.
The whole way home Beckett was asking if he could cook dinner for all of us the next night and they’re both clamoring to shop and cook a Thai meal all on their own. I couldn’t have asked for a better day!
The logistics: We booked with Sammy’s Organic Thai Cooking School which is a bit out of town in a beautiful location surrounded by rice paddy fields. Sammy picked us up at the Thae Pae gate around 8:30am and we arrived back there around 4:30pm. Cost was 1,000 Baht ($33) for each adult and 100 Baht ($3.30) for each kid. The best way to book is to call as my email wasn’t answered.
I took a different cooking class a week before and they were both a different experience. The Red Chili class was very methodical and you measured, chopped, watched him cook, then cooked everything on your own. Definitely a great way to be able to duplicate recipes back home and really learn how and why you’re doing what you’re doing. The one with Sammy was a bit less formal and you didn’t have to do as much measuring and thinking. For example, sometimes they’d come by with a bowl of coconut milk and ladle it in without telling you how much they were adding or why. However, it was still fun and educational, but I’d feel less able to go home and recreate my dishes if I’d just gone to Sammy’s.
We originally wanted to zipline in Hawaii, but put that off once we knew we were heading to Thailand.
Flight of the Gibbon is about a 45 minute drive up into the mountains East of Chiang Mai. The scenery was great, but the last 15-20 min are twisty-turny and our driver was a bit aggressive. Luckily none of us got sick, but if we’d had another 5 minutes, it could’ve been ugly.
After you’re geared up, they drive you about 5 minutes to the start of the course where you get a safety briefing.
Beckett is all geared up!Kir ready to go!
You start out with a couple of small ziplines then hike about 15 minutes uphill to get to the longest line on the course, over a half mile. From there, you mostly zig zag across a valley, with some shorter lines, bridges, and stairs mixed in.
It’s waaaay up high, but Beckett didn’t mind.
They have a couple tandem zips, which is where these next two pictures were taken.
I love this next picture. Beckett was fearless and had the time of his life, just kicking and making all sorts of joyous noise!
WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
I made it!
The rest of us had a really good time too!
Kir is FLYING!!!!!Grandma Jane flies across
There were a few “Indiana Jones” bridges we crossed. They sway and rock quite a bit. We were tethered, but it’s still kinda freaky.
Kirsten going across a bridgeLooking down through one of the “Indiana Jones” bridges we crossed.
At the end, you’re still way up high, so you abseil twice down about 75 feet. In English, that means they just hitch you to a rope and lower you straight down.
Down the hatch!Kirsten abseiling down from the final platform.
And yes, there were Gibbons. They live up by the start of zipline #3, so you get to check them out while resting from the hike up the mountain.
Sadly after 3 hours and 33 different stations with dozens of ziplines, it was over. But what an experience!
Who’s got two thumbs and loves ziplining? THIS GUY!We survived.
I was a little skeptical about doing ziplining, especially given the cost. However, it was quite the thrilling experience. It’s a really neat way to experience the jungle and you get enough adrenaline from the heights and obstacles that it’s not just a lame nature tour.
To do this, just book with Flight of the Gibbon directly and they pick you up in town. There’s very little room for cars up there, so driving yourself is discouraged. Cost was 3,300 Baht (about $11o US) with no discount for Beckett.